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There is no way that you have not been in a situation, where you have been shoot with such an extremely tactful and appropriate question, that you would wonder how to get away and what to answer. Let’s not lie to ourselves, there is always some smart person or a rascal, who would like to be interesting and to show the others how great he is.

The important thing is how do you react in such a moment. The practice shows, that the best defence is done when you have been prepared for the battle. In such moments you should react quickly and rapidly with two or three uncomfortable counter questions, which would make the smart person forget about what he has asked you and he would sink into the ground. It is good, of course, when you are prepared and you have several ready answers to the most common uncomfortable questions. Not everyone must be treated rudely and badly, of course. And you never know from whom and when you could hear an unpleasant question. We have prepared some amunitions for you by providing you with answers to several questions, and for other questions we consider you being able to cope even better with.

Why such a pretty girl like you has no boyfriend?
An often met phrase of most of the bold “macho’s”, who think that all women are at their feet. You could answer in the following way: “I keep myself for someone just as good as I am.” And immediately a slight counter question “And you, how have you let this happen to you? “ this is a self-confident and bold retort and it shows, that you like the free life…..until you meet the right person. In the meanwhile you put in the same unpleasant situation the boy, who has dared to ask you about intimate details. From here on he should take a defensive position and you decide how hard and attacking hard and attacking you would be.

What were the reasons to part with your former boyfriend?
A very unpleasant question, especially if it is asked by your current boyfriend. You could answer to it in the following way: “Things weren’t the same after the show ended. When the cameras went off we understood that we are not born for each other…..”-the joke shall disperse the potential discomfort and should keep the positive tune. After this you could return the strike of course with a phrase like that: “And you, are you always so tactful with the girls?” – in this way you should have satisfied his curiosity and in the same time you shall make him understand that such questions are not pleasant for you.

Has this sometimes happened to you, that someone would break your heart?
In fact there is hardly a girl, who has not gone through such a thing. And every time when she remembers about that she becomes sad and usually she avoids this conversation and this company. But how to explain to men that this is not the best way to get closer to a girl.
Answer the boy’s question in the following way: “Of course, who has not undergone this?!”-this makes clear that you don’t regret about the past. And immediately turn the direction with the question: “And do you think you would enjoy me with such stupid things all the evening?” – you could be sure, that after such a retort this mister would not dare asking such a question a second time.
And if for your good luck you have never ever went through something like this, then tell him: “ They have hurt me in the past, of course, but it wasn’t such a drama.”, after which you could tell something like: “I think, that the happy hearts are more than the broken ones and I definitely think to stay among them. So, if you are one of the heart-breakers, please look for another one”

We hope, that this couple of advices could be useful and could help you coping with such situations more easily. And you should not allow to the men to depress you and to hurt you. At the end every man should know his own place, shouldn’t he .

Posted on March 8th, 2010 by Dimitrius
Filed under: Advice for datings, Advice for girls and woman