The delusion in sex

The delusion in sex – part two

Continued from Part One
Man and woman feel the sex equally: Men must know that both sexes feel the sexual act in a different way! The inside of the vagina with most of the women is less sensual, when compared to the external sex organs. The fast movements at the end of the act could be unpleasant for her and they even could make her feel pain. The long penis could also make her feel not comfortable and unpleasant, especially in the abdomen.

During a sexual act you should try to follow the sensuality of the woman and to prevent as much as possible the unpleasant feelings. Although they don’t share it always, some women feel very unpleasant irritations and pains if they are not properly excited. In order to minimize or sometimes even to eliminate the unpleasant feelings, one could use the help of the various types of lubricants.

I know how to make her excited: You should have in mind that every single woman has differently developed erogenous zones. A touch which a woman could like, could be nothing special for another, and even could be painful for a third one. The most effective way to discover how she likes to be touched is just to ask her and she will guide you. Of course this should not be the end of all. During the sex act you should carefully explore the intimate areas and the reaction of the woman with the different types of touching.

Wet not always means excited: Some women detach more secretions than other when they are excited, but this could be changed from day to day, regardless of the sexual excitement. The quantity of the “natural lubricant” of the woman is influenced also by the phase of the menstrual cycle, by the presence of stress, as well as by some medicaments which the woman could take by that time. So the fact that she is very wet not always means that she has a high level of excitement. The same is true also for the deep heavy and penetrating moans. Usually one of the most significant marks for reaching the final straight with the woman is that she turns heavily red mainly in the area between the neck and the breasts. Especially if this turning red is done after several heavier convulsions, which could happen in the final phase.

Silence is gold, they say: Yes, principally, but not in the bed. This sentence is not true definitely in the warm intimate moments. Many men think, that they should be quiet during the sexual act, which is indeed a big error. There is no other better way that your partner should understand what you want, if you don’t express aloud your reaction to the things he/she does with you. Usually the heavy and clear moaning helps for strengthening the passion between you both. Besides this provides you with the possibility to let yourself free and to relax fully so that you could have an even better and heavier experience.
If you think about it you would see that there are other delusions, too, which many men have considered as pure truth and which has resulted in continuous hindrance for their sex life being of full value. And remember, try to relax as much as possible with your partner as you watch continuously her reactions. This could open sooner or later new horizons and unconquered tops for you.