Guide him on your sexual desires

Lots of women in the world remain extremely unsatisfied by the sexual relationships with their partners. This usually occurs after prolonged relationships in which partners know the smallest details. And often they are not particularly innovative and diverse in their sexual preferences.

It turns out that in most cases, this lack of variety is due to the fact that the female does not admits her lack of satisfaction of sexual intercourse performed. In fact, most of the women don’t talk with their partners about how satisfied they are with the intimate relationship. In this article, we have tried to give some guidelines for girls and women who do not feel enough satisfaction from sexual relations with their lovers.

Be responsible to yourself. Take responsibility for your own pleasure or the lack of it. Do not let things just happen without actively participating in them. Be demanding and do not underestimate your own needs and feelings. Try to think about the postures, action and inaction at various times. And what led to all this. Ultimately, you should determine what you enjoy and what not!

Do not hesitate to share what you have felt. You should be honest with your partner. You should not be embarrassed to discuss your experiences with him. However, you both participate in this endeavour and you deserve as much as he. Step by step, start being more demanding, by increasing your favourite things that make you feel excited and satisfied. And insist on a reduction or modification of these positions and actions that kill your desire and make you feel badly. Say at the right moment openly and clearly, what you enjoy and what you don’t like. And do not forget that you have this right as much as your partner.

Encourage him for the efforts he makes. After giving instructions to your love, you should encourage and laud, if he had done well with what you have asked. But only if he deserves! Otherwise, you will neither stay happy, nor he will fell the satisfaction from the fact that he managed to deliver greater portion of delight to you. Promotion and awards could be expressed, as compliments, praise and gentle caresses. So and with small and intimate gifts and if you mane his erotic desires come true. You define and control this process by your own. Receive but give as well, so both feel the benefits of the mutual attention to each other. In this manner, you could manage to discover and rediscover new moments of joy and satisfaction.

Tell him about everything you feel during the act. Share it with all the changes in mood and feelings during intercourse. So, he could fit the situation and succeed easily to find the right way to your sublime moment. Teach him to monitor constantly your feelings and sensations, such as trying to stimulate him by giving indication on what and how to do.

Try to follow these few hints and see how much your sex life will change. Do not give up your partner, if he does not perceive what you say at once. Be consistent in your desires, and you will see that result shall come.

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Uncomfortable questions and answers to them

There is no way that you have not been in a situation, where you have been shoot with such an extremely tactful and appropriate question, that you would wonder how to get away and what to answer. Let’s not lie to ourselves, there is always some smart person or a rascal, who would like to be interesting and to show the others how great he is.

The important thing is how do you react in such a moment. The practice shows, that the best defence is done when you have been prepared for the battle. In such moments you should react quickly and rapidly with two or three uncomfortable counter questions, which would make the smart person forget about what he has asked you and he would sink into the ground. It is good, of course, when you are prepared and you have several ready answers to the most common uncomfortable questions. Not everyone must be treated rudely and badly, of course. And you never know from whom and when you could hear an unpleasant question. We have prepared some amunitions for you by providing you with answers to several questions, and for other questions we consider you being able to cope even better with.

Why such a pretty girl like you has no boyfriend?
An often met phrase of most of the bold “macho’s”, who think that all women are at their feet. You could answer in the following way: “I keep myself for someone just as good as I am.” And immediately a slight counter question “And you, how have you let this happen to you? “ this is a self-confident and bold retort and it shows, that you like the free life…..until you meet the right person. In the meanwhile you put in the same unpleasant situation the boy, who has dared to ask you about intimate details. From here on he should take a defensive position and you decide how hard and attacking hard and attacking you would be.

What were the reasons to part with your former boyfriend?
A very unpleasant question, especially if it is asked by your current boyfriend. You could answer to it in the following way: “Things weren’t the same after the show ended. When the cameras went off we understood that we are not born for each other…..”-the joke shall disperse the potential discomfort and should keep the positive tune. After this you could return the strike of course with a phrase like that: “And you, are you always so tactful with the girls?” – in this way you should have satisfied his curiosity and in the same time you shall make him understand that such questions are not pleasant for you.

Has this sometimes happened to you, that someone would break your heart?
In fact there is hardly a girl, who has not gone through such a thing. And every time when she remembers about that she becomes sad and usually she avoids this conversation and this company. But how to explain to men that this is not the best way to get closer to a girl.
Answer the boy’s question in the following way: “Of course, who has not undergone this?!”-this makes clear that you don’t regret about the past. And immediately turn the direction with the question: “And do you think you would enjoy me with such stupid things all the evening?” – you could be sure, that after such a retort this mister would not dare asking such a question a second time.
And if for your good luck you have never ever went through something like this, then tell him: “ They have hurt me in the past, of course, but it wasn’t such a drama.”, after which you could tell something like: “I think, that the happy hearts are more than the broken ones and I definitely think to stay among them. So, if you are one of the heart-breakers, please look for another one”

We hope, that this couple of advices could be useful and could help you coping with such situations more easily. And you should not allow to the men to depress you and to hurt you. At the end every man should know his own place, shouldn’t he ;) .

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HOW TO START TALKING TO HER – PART TWO

In First part of the article we have paid attention to the surrounding situation, the selection of the right moment, the gestures and your behavior, as well as the most important moment of the obligatorily start of the conversation. In this part of the article we should outline how you should lead a conversation with easiness.

Leading the conversation: What to tell her? What should we talk about? How should I start the conversation?Speak everything you could think about, just be careful that it would not be too crazy or insulting. The curious facts are a very good start of the conversation, since once flattered, the woman’s curiosity could hardly be satisfied. Therefore don’t stop informing yourself about anything which happens around you. Watch television, read newspapers and books, listen to radio and be informed. That’s the way you would be aware of all of the most actual topics and events and that you would be able freely to comment them.

Keep training and practicing continuously: This is the key to success. Keep training with every passing moment. Don’t be worried to try with every single girl. Repeating the activity should help you think about the smallest details. As time goes by everything would become more easier and things would happen by themselves. Get better and learn from your mistakes. Don’t stop doing it and don’t refuse after being denied. There is no doubt that there should be such moments, too, but there will be also moments, which shall load you with so much satisfaction and desire, that it would be possible to become proud of it. It is important to know, that the good presentation depends on the following: your ability to communicate freely, to dress with taste and according to the situation, to use appropriate gestures and facial expressions, which should finish your charm and fascination.

Make compliments, too, but to a certain extent: Remember, that the compliment should be honest and appropriate. It must be said in the right moment and it must be truth. Don’t tell her that her hair is beautiful, when she has no hair dress. This only would insult her. Make her a compliment about something, which she wears: earrings, bracelets, clothes etc. Don’t make long and passionate compliments. Be short but insistent! When you make compliment remain serious and look her straight in the eyes. This would strengthen the good feeling in her originated by the skillfully made compliment.

Your look: Look her always in the eyes and watch for her reactions. On the eyes you could examine her behavior and react more correctly to her behavior. Don’t avoid her look and be calm and look at her with open eyes, but be careful not to be glassy and staring. Since this could make her afraid and worried. Try being naturally and behave with ease.

In fact one should keep in mind and watch for many things, which are important for your conversation being successfully held. But as time goes by and with the more practice you get you should get used to them and it would be more easier to make good acquaintances which should open you the door to the possibility of getting closer and intimate with the girls you like.

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HOW TO START TALKING TO HER – PART ONE

This is the first and most important step, which should leave durable impressions on the girl with whom you want to become friends.  Therefore you should present yourself at your best and in such a way, so that you could be able to intrigue her and to leave her with positive impressions. In order to present yourself at the proper level you should have in mind some basic rules. If you stick to them you should have much bigger chance for having a success.

Select the moment: It is very important to select the right moment and the right place. Remember that this is of exclusive importance for the final success. Don’t try talking to beautiful girls at the street. Don’t try talking to them when they are among other girlfriends, too. The best moment to start talking to the girl you like is when she is alone and is bored. Then she would be ready to listen to everyone and would be happy to accept a funny and nice conversation to cheer herself up. Besides there would be no girlfriends around in front of whom she should have to behave and this would make her be more natural. It would be good if you succeed in using the services of a close friend of her, who would be able to introduce you in front of her. This would make her more open minded and she would not pretend being too important, when she gets to know that she has mutual friends with you.

Watch the situation: Select the appropriate situation for having your conversation. If it is not appropriate, go to another place, which should be better and more comfortable. Watch for her reactions and the way she reacts at the place you are. If she feels confused and is not easy, this means she shall not pay attention to the things you are talking to her. Take a look and follow continuously the surrounding situation and the events around you. Anything unusual could serve as a conversation subject and could cheer up and refresh the situation.

The body language: You should look as if you know what you want and how to achieve it. For this purpose you must use clear and distinctive verbal messages in the conversation and also it is very good if you support them with adequate gestures and facial expressions. All this mixed into one could result in an impressive presence. The behavior you are going to demonstrate in front of her is of extreme importance. You should be self-confident and very relaxed. Under no circumstances you should look as if you are self-confident and arrogant, since this is not liked by anyone. Don’t try being too formal and pretending as if you are of great importance. Since this should make the conversation only harder. Try behaving as if you are talking to some good friend, while you are having a conversation with her.

First words: Regardless of what we are talking about and discussing here, you must remember the following! YOU MUST START TALKING TO HER! It is not necessary to be original, some clichés could do the job, too. The important thing is to do it! You could lose nothing! You could only win. Even if she tells you to go away, you just wanted to get introduced to her and this is nothing bad. But if she answers you with a smile in return, this means that you have succeed in impressing her. And from here on the worries should be forgotten and you should feel more confident and relaxed, which should help you leading the conversation between you both in a far easier way.
To be continued in Part two

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Signs that he cheating on you-Part Two

Considering the first part of the article, there we introduced some of the mild and not too intrusive signs that he might cheating on you. In this section we are going to provide several more serious signals to pay attention.

He comes back late from places where it was without you: He comes back home late at night. He excuses himself with impulsively going out with old friends or more work at the office. Going out is more frequent and he finds difficulties to explain where and with whom he was. He is obviously trying to not talk about going out and diverts the topic in another direction. He might become irritable when a conversation occurred in this direction.

He avoids your direct you look: He feels uneasy and insecure when you look him straight in the eyes. He is doing everything possible to avoid your gaze. Especially in the conversations concerning the relationship with you, this might be due to a strong sense of guilt or fear of exposing him in an explicit lie. Certainly, there is something wrong with him and you have to take action.

He doesn’t stay still: He proceeds nervously from foot to foot and can not stop. While sitting he is jittery shaking his leg. For the liars, it is difficult to control their legs. Ask him about how his day has passed, and then gently lead the conversation about what worries and bothers him. After a few days, ask him one or two questions related to his story to verify that he would say the same or lie.

He updates his wardrobe: He starts wearing new and modern underwear, also emphasizes on more expensive and exquisite brands. There is abrupt change in his style of dressing. He buys and wears clothes which he hasn’t been impressed before. He makes new and combinations with his clothes.

He is unusually fastidious and vain: He has a renewed interest in his appearance. Suddenly, he starts caring a lot of the small details in his clothing. He more often starts to visit a hairdresser and beautician. Before goes out, he began to stay longer than usual in front of the mirror. In general, he is extremely fastidious and demanding to the overall appearance. Men are not like women and they do not happen to fall in periodic moods towards their appearance and clothes style, unless they are imposed by certain circumstances.
The article is continued in Part Three.

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