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Without any doubt there is a full turn in the relations between two people, and this is not to be avoided, sooner or later. For better or for worse every one of them walks on his or her own way in life. Very often one should make big sacrifices when following his or her aims in life and the built up principles. One of these sacrifices is the separation with the loving one.

Don’t run away from the problem, but face it right away.
This is an unpleasant moment for anyone, who has loved or who has respected the person next to him. The person with whom there have been so much mutual emotions and good or bad moments. Memories, which could not be forgotten with ease. In such moments one can’t always find the most appropriate way for stopping the relations with the loving one. Regardless of what the reasons are, there are always some reasons, which make us “go faster through” this hard step. Many people try even running away from the moment as they hide themselves from the world and pretend as if nothing has happened. Following their aim not to cause anymore pain or suffering, people try sometimes involuntarily to go round that particular moment and to continue forward. The truth, however, is that this moment is a part of the life and we all should go through this, too. The runaway doesn’t make us happier. We should find strengths, gather courage and face the situation arisen, in order to solve it once and for all.

The most often used ways to separate from the loving one are as follows:
Separation by means of a message: Don’t separate with your loving one by means of a SMS, message or notice, handed down by a close friend – this way to end your relation is one of the most stupid and disrespectful ways, by means of which you say to the person that everything between you both has ended. These several strokes which you should write down in your message could be communicated with words, too, which shall influence much harder and in a more categorical way. Besides you could say everything within not more than 5-10 minutes.

Separation by means of a letter: Don’t separate from the loving one by mean of an e-mail or a personal message in some website – this way to communicate the bad news shows obvious disrespect to the person, with whom you have been together. Regardless of the number of words or pages you have written, you could never describe the emotion and your feelings to the person you have been together with.
Phone separation: The separation via the phone is one of the ways, in which you both avoid talking face to face with your partner, a talk which definitely should not be easy, and you have a personal relation to it and show that in fact this person with whom you break up has not been completely indifferent to you. This is not one of the preferred ways but definitely it is a possibility in case of very hard separations with which one could expect a very hard and unpleasant separation.
Separation face to face: The best and noblest way to separate from someone is to do it personal. Face to face. You owe this to every one, with whom you have been together more than a week at least because the time and emotions you have had together.
Don’t forget that in such a conversation one could explain and overcome many differences and problems which could make you suffer for a long time, if they remain unspoken.

Posted on February 21st, 2010 by Dimitrius
Filed under: Unisex advice and guidance